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Published on September 16, 2021 by author Tracy Cyril

How many of you are having fantasies of taking that trip to Bali, Dubai, Saint Lucia or Hawaii right now? However you have expressed that to your significant other or bestie or distant cousin. And their response was “as soon as ..I save up enough cash or as soon as I close this deal at work or as soon as I lock in my vacation days.

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Why wait on this person to embrace this experience in waiting? Make a solid plan, secure your vacation dates, save up your vacation cash, book your accommodation and your flight. Get a babysitter for your kids or petsitter for your pets and take the plunge. I am speaking directly to persons terrified of doing things alone i.e going to the movies, going shopping and taking trips. My aim is to build your confidence and give you courage to come out of your comfort zone. Spending quality time with yourself will result in rewarding revelations such as;

  • Self discovery – what you love, why you love what you love, purpose, passion, skills
  • Become creative
  • Feels liberating
  • Builds confidence
  • Builds independence
  • Therapeutic
  • Adventurous
  • Form of self-love
  • Explore new experiences
  • Serves as a form of quiet time
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This article is intended to help motivate those who are ready to explore however are restricted and believe that they need a group or another person to accompany them. I have been an only child for years and have developed a strong sense of independence at a very young age due to the way my mom raised me, so she deserves all the credit for the person I have become.

Which is a free spirit, independent flower. This is not so for many; and so I am committed to uplifting and encouraging you reading this article today; it is a scary thing and I know you have never done it alone before but I am asking you to just try it and see how you like it.You can start with baby steps such as having a date with yourself (spa, dinner, coffee, line dancing) and let me know how it works out.

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Hopefully this article has helped someone in some way. Let me know your feedback after your date with self or solo trip. Jack or Jill would be pleasantly surprise with your exciting stories of your solo experiences. Cheers to self-love and that liberating feeling you get!! Love n Light xoxo

1 Comment

  1. Gloria Cyril says:

    My beloved daughter Tracy. I just want you to know that i am very proud of you. You always try new adventures and determin to reach the top. After you have done it

    You inspire others to try the same. You never ceast to amaze me. Anyway keep up the good work. Love you very much.

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